When it comes to women, I've learnt that eye contact is important when communicating but I guess you knew that right? A crucial section of the piece of legislation known as the 'laws of attraction'. I read somewhere that if a woman maintains eye contact with you for a period longer than 3 seconds then she's interested. I haven't tried this out. To be honest, I don't have the balls to do it. In my mind, I believe it could go horribly wrong but then again I have nothing to lose right? or so that's what my friends tell me but it's harder to do and easier to say.
Still, I'm well aware that if a girl stares at you for a prolonged period of time, that indicates her interest in you. What's better is that if you notice her looking at you and she smiles then she's pretty much inviting you over to talk to her and it'll probably be up to you to maintain that interest she has. My experience with this is that if I saw a girl looking at me and she smiles, I immedietly think she's making fun of me. I'm serious. Yes, I have low self-esteem. This has happened a few times whilst my time at university and what did I do? I packed my stuff up and sat somewhere else. However, there was that one time when I fell asleep in a 24 hour computer room and woke up with paper stuck to my face but I clearly knew they were laughing about that. Anyhow, it is weird that I can't tell if this is happening to me at the time but I can clearly tell if it happens to my friends. Still oblivious to such signs so I haven't changed that much. On the other hand, if she isn't interested in you then she may quickly glance once or twice and then probably not look at you again thinking "What's he looking at?" or she may be really shy herself. It's a tricky situation.
Most guys I know tend to find approaching the girl the most diffiuclt thing but if she's smiled at you then as I've said before, you should go up to her because she's now made it easier for you. That's about the only thing they find hard. They're able to maintain conversation and escalate things further whereas I do not. I don't think I have the neccessary social skills to maintain conversation unless they're my friends and to be honest, I don't really do anything about it so I can't really moan.
Have you ever heard of something called 'bedroom eyes'? It's a term for seductive eyes. Some women have naturally seductive eyes but others have to work on some kind of seductive look to inform a male that she wants something more tonight. Some tilt their head back and still have their eyes locked on. In my opinion, she just looks crazy and creepy and I kind of get scared.
Talking about seductive eyes, last year women in Saudi Arabia who had 'sexy eyes' were told they would have to cover them up. I don't really mock culture and religion that much as it causes unnessassary trouble but I just found that hillarious. That was probably they only part of their body that was not covered and now their told that they'd have to cover their eyes up too. They'd just end up wearing black cloaks or whatever other colour they choose that'd ressemble the KKK.
The government of Saudi Arabia has decided that its men would do better without the "tempting eyes" of attractive Saudi women in public places.Apparently, women in Saudi are required by law to wear the 'Abaya' which as I've mentioned previously covers all parts of their bodies. Those who wonder in public places without it will be executed...nah, they'll just get fined. The idea is that Saudi men should not get tempted and look at women lustfully. Well, I guess Saudi isn't the best place for me to live. No wonder why nearly most of the Arab students that come into the UK are so horney and they try to get chicks over here. Mind you, they also drink since they are far away from home and are temporarily living the western way of life. I'm just wondering though, have they banned porn in Saudi? Guess it must suck to live there huh.
So there you have it. Don't really know what else to say. If you've got any thoughts you'd like to share then please comment.
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