Some say women want to be told that they're beautiful etc but in my experience, that has never worked out. But then again, I've hardly given any girls compliments because I see it like this. If you see a very attractive young woman in a bar/club, her defences are going to be up. She knows she's going to be hit on by guys from all corners of the ring. In her mind, she needs to find the most suitable person out of the bunch. Most of the time, it'll probably end up being the most attractive guy as women are quite shallow despite many of them saying that looks aren't important to them and it's all about personality. This is usually a lie.
They're programmed to find the best mate possible for reproduction. I guess personality doesn't help ensure surivial. Getting back to the topic at hand, since you know they're expecting to be hit on, you need to try and treat them as normal people or maybe perhaps be a bit mean to them. A lot of the guys will be trying to get into their knickers so they'll be treating these women like princesses. I suck at this so if I ever did talk to a girl, I'd try and be as normal as possible.
I have a friend who until recently was giving pretty girls compliments on the street. He didn't even know them. The result; hardly any numbers recieved and he came off very desperate. The after effect of his acts; since people in general remember awrkward events happening to them and women talk about these things to their friends, the next time they see him they'll warn them about him and it'll go like this:
Girl hit on by friend: "you remember that guy i told you who hit on me in the city centre?"
Girl's friend: "which one?"
Girl hit on by friend: "that guy when i bought that dress"
Girl's friend: "ooooohhh yeah"
Girl hit on by friend: "That's him over there"
Girl's friend: "Oh my god"
So next time if you're in a club/bar and want to talk to a girl you like but she's surrounded by lots of guys, try and get an oportunity to make yourself stand out from the rest. It may not work first time round but if you practice, I'm sure it'll work out. Ever seen the movie Hitch? He isolates one of these chicks by giving her money and pretending that he thought she was a waitress. Genius.
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